Family Weddings

Weddings have become "big business" and perhaps rightly so, if taken in the correct context. The couple's exchange of vows before the altar is a sign of God's pledge of fidelity to us, to the Church. It is a visible sign of his union with his bride; as great as the love of the couple is for each other, it gives us only a glimpse of this divine, unconditional love God has for us. As such, ought it not be a memorable occasion highlighted by as much pomp and beauty as we can muster?
It also brings family together and stirs up wonder and appreciation for the rich treasure found in a family where love has been the source of happiness, the strength needed in adversity, and the energy behind our faith and hope. As meaningful toasts and tributes are made to the bride and groom, inevitably, the legacy of love passed on from grandparents and parents stands out as the foundation upon which this new marriage is based. It is not a difficult leap to see the connection between God who is love, and the love which binds the man and wife together for life. Joy and peace flow abundantly to all gathered to witness and celebrate the wedding. And from this union will eventually come new life, a sharing in God's creative powers. This is, indeed, Big Business.
It has been a special blessing on Saturday to be part of the wedding of the daughter of a former student to a man, who "gets it" as she does. Hence these reflections on marriage.
Bro. Rene