The epithet, "Helicopter Parent", has reached the point of becoming trite and overused, but when introduced several years ago, it seemed like the perfect title for the "interfering parent". I first heard it in reference to parents of grammar school children, but now I'm told it extends even to college students and graduates, whose parents do all they can to maneuver their offspring into a lucrative job. It's a natural instinct to want to protect the young and innocent, especially our own, or our friends. Today's Gospel describes a "helicopter Peter". who rebukes Jesus for predicting his passion and death. Peter was trying to interfere with a plan he couldn't fully understand at the moment, and is sharply rebuked by Jesus who said to him, "Get behind me, Satan. You are an obstacle to me. You are not thinking as God does, but as human beings do." (Mt 16: 23). Interfering with God's plan is truly Satanic, but don't we find ourselves doing just that...looking for human solutions, trying to resolve problems for others instead of simply accompanying them through a process that will lead to their growth? We don't like to see others suffer, true, well and good, but there is a value in suffering that will be lost unless the suffering is experienced. We really can't go through life jumping the puddles for others. They have to learn to do it themselves. Let out prayer bring us closer to the mind of God, and the addition of fasting and self-sacrifice (e.g. holding back the urge to take charge of someone else's life) might be that added dimension we need to accept God's plan more completely.
Bro. Rene
2. “Be giving of yourself to others“: People need to be open and generous toward others, he said, because “if you withdraw into yourself, you run the risk of becoming egocentric. And stagnant water becomes putrid.”
3. “Proceed calmly in life“: The pope, who used to teach high school literature, used an image from an Argentine novel by Ricardo Guiraldes, in which the protagonist — gaucho Don Segundo Sombra — looks back on how he lived his life.
4. “Have a healthy sense of leisure“: The Pope said “consumerism has brought us anxiety,” and told parents to set aside time to play with their children and turn of the TV when they sit down to eat.
5. “Sundays should be holidays“: Workers should have Sundays off because “Sunday is for family,” he said.
6. “Find innovative ways to create dignified jobs for young people“: “We need to be creative with young people. If they have no opportunities they will get into drugs” and be more vulnerable to suicide, he said.
7. “Respect and take care of nature“: “Environmental degradation is one of the biggest challenges we have,” said Pope Francis. “I think a question that we’re not asking ourselves is, ‘Isn’t humanity committing suicide with this indiscriminate and tyrannical use of nature?’”
8. “Stop being negative“: “Needing to talk badly about others indicates low self-esteem. That means, ‘I feel so low that instead of picking myself up I have to cut others down,’” the Pope said. “Letting go of negative things quickly is healthy.”
9. “Don’t proselytize; respect others’ beliefs“: “We can inspire others through witness so that one grows together in communicating. But the worst thing of all is religious proselytism, which paralyses: ‘I am talking with you in order to persuade you,’ No. Each person dialogues, starting with his and her own identity. The church grows by attraction, not proselytizing.”
10. “Work for peace“: “We are living in a time of many wars,” said Pope Francis, and “the call for peace must be shouted. Peace sometimes gives the impression of being quiet, but it is never quiet, peace is always proactive and dynamic”.
Pope Francis certainly is one of the most popular religious leaders in the modern world. Having dared to bring in much needed modernization to the surprisingly archaic institution, Pope Francis appears to have much more wisdom to offer. But, his health should support him.
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